The Ultimate Sex is about enjoying the ride and not focusing on the destination. By managing your state of arousal, you can feel a high degree of pleasure for an unlimited amount of time (see Managing Your Pleasure Meter). Whether you are a woman who is approaching orgasm but wants to delay it in order […]
Your mind is your biggest sex organ. Learn how to get the best out of it.
Sex originates in the brain. Our thoughts, feelings, and intentions play a big role in determining how satisfying our sexual experiences will be. The Ultimate Sex occurs when your thoughts are focused on what’s happening with yourself and your partner in the moment (see Sex as a Meditation). When you are in the Present Moment, […]
The average man and woman learn about how their body works in school and they learn how to have sex from pornography. This is actually quite sad. When it comes to enjoying sex, nobody can teach you about your own body. Everybody and every body is different. What turns one person on may feel uncomfortable […]
The Tantric traditions are very diverse, but a common thread is that if you approach sex as a divine meditation–physically with a partner or symbolically with the universe–you can gain positive benefits. Some believe this form of meditation is the quickest way to enlightenment and various forms of spiritual power. Why do we meditate? Our […]
Dirk considers “Regular Sex” to be “Goal-Oriented Sex”. What is the goal? To please yourself, to please someone else, to have an orgasm, to give someone an orgasm. It has a beginning, a middle, and an end, and then it’s over. But what if you had no goal other than enjoying what you are feeling […]