The Ultimate Sex is about enjoying the ride and not focusing on the destination. By managing your state of arousal, you can feel a high degree of pleasure for an unlimited amount of time (see Managing Your Pleasure Meter). Whether you are a woman who is approaching orgasm but wants to delay it in order […]
Cultivate your mind and body using Dirk’s techniques.
Sex originates in the brain. Our thoughts, feelings, and intentions play a big role in determining how satisfying our sexual experiences will be. The Ultimate Sex occurs when your thoughts are focused on what’s happening with yourself and your partner in the moment (see Sex as a Meditation). When you are in the Present Moment, […]
The key to The Ultimate Sex is the ability to take control over your own arousal. To raise it to a very pleasurable level and maintain it there indefinitely. This level of control allows a man to Orgasm but pull back before Ejaculating and it allows a woman to build and achieve a Superior Orgasm. […]
We tend to label the objects around us; a rock, a tree, a table, etc. When we label something our attitude about it changes from “curiosity” to “knowingness”. We think we “know” what a rock is so we seldom give them much thought. We can categorize them, measure them, modify them. But do we really […]
There is something special about looking into your partner’s eyes. A closeness. An unspoken connection. A tenderness. A naked vulnerability. It can pull you into the present moment and open your heart. The Missionary Position is a very loving position, allowing you to easily look into your partner’s eyes. The Silent Missionary Exercise combines these […]